What do I actually do? 

I work with individuals and couples of all genders, sexual orientations and relationship status in coaching and bodywork. I always offer a free 15 minute chat to discover whether we are a good fit to work with each other. My Heart passions are co-creating community online. Scroll to the bottom to discover more about Vermilion, One World Tantra Festival, EvolveFest & ISTAOnline.


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Like this picture of a flowing river in Oregon, Conscious Kink can support you to learn to embody different energies. Learn to be more present, stable and directive, like the banks of this river, and/or a more flowing, fluid, surrendering energy, like the water. Conscious Kink coaching explores dynamics, polarity play, power exchange, skills and techniques and the energetics of playing in the kinky realms.  

Using the art of Conscious Kink I support you (with or without partner/s) to develop your self awareness and co-regulation, with embodied cognisance of what it means and feels to be in consent, to holding space for yourself and others,  learning to trust and surrender and the importance of aftercare.

Getting Conscious with your Kinks can support expansion in all areas of your life, not only in your bedroom/dungeon.


Conscious Connected Breathwork (CCB) is a breathwork modality that supports you to discover hidden aspects of yourself and to bring unconscious belief systems (BS), trauma and conditioning to the surface for integration. This can be offered alongside other modalities, or as a stand alone practise. I guide you with music and hold space for you to use the power of your breath to support you to re-member why you are here and help you realise what it is you need to move forwards. CCB can also support the activation of your eros (sexual energy) and gift you experiences of energetic breath orgasms (without the need to touch yourself!). And nothing at all can happen too, so I invite you to lose any expectations, prior to your session. CCB is an individual practise that you can do in the presence of a partner(s).


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Also known as Somatic Sex Education, Sexological Bodywork is a client centred modality that supports you to rediscover your sensations, eroticism and arousal. Explore embodying your full FUCK YES and sacred no, with strong ethics and nervous system aligned boundaries. Learning how to receive, give, serve and accept, with yourself and others, using Betty Martin's Wheel of Consent®. Somatic Sex Education is a combination of practices from Taoist, Yoga, meditation, breathwork, scar tissue remediation, anatomy with a background in neuroscience, psychology and somatic learning theory. For those conscious and curious skeptics, it balances the scientific and spiritual, supporting people to move through trauma, experiences and conditioning that may be holding them back to being fully embodied sexual and sensate beings. 


Working together online, with many tools and techniques from Sexological Bodywork, Conscious Connected Breathwork and Conscious Kink, I support you to become more embodied in your everyday life. Moving out of a nervous system response, into a fuller, more accepting version of you. How you show up in the bedroom is often indicative of how you show up in your life. Inviting you to move into a space of receiving more pleasure from your self and your partner(s) (if applicable) and then you will be in a place to give from a more fulfilled place. The difference is palpable. 


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Vermilion is a sex-positive well-being community, where conscious, consenting adults can connect, dialogue, explore, share, learn & play with games & practices both online and at workshops in the U.K., retreats & celebrations. We are on Facebook, Fetlife and our ticketing platform is Dandelion.Earth.  You must be a member of Facebook or Dandelion Earth to become a member of our FetLife group. Don't forget to answer the membership questions when you request to join!


This festival is a journey within. A journey home. This gathering may be much more than just a festival. It may be a new beginning as you awaken to the possibility that we can live at our ease in this unique moment in time and beyond.

Bring your curiosity, your desire, your fear, your vulnerability, your courage, your questions, your doubts, your hopes & your dreams. All of you is welcome here! You choose your own adventure at the ISTA Festival.


January 6th - 9th 2022


EVOLVE FEST is a 5-day online Festival. Bringing together relationship enthusiasts from all over the world, to embark on a journey of love, transformation and togetherness. 

Come, discover what’s possible when we gather the world's leading minds, open hearts and adventurous souls in an active inquiry for what’s on the leading edge of evolution through human connection. 





A Tantra Festival is all about you being you. Tantra is not the next thing to learn, do right or follow to the ends of the earth. What is in the way of loving yourself fully? Receive more love in your life? Abundance? Allowing your voice to be heard and emotions felt?

A Tantra festival is not about learning something new, but remembering who you are and doing it together with others seeking to do the same.


February 25th - March 4th 2022

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Community Leadership

Co-creating and leading conscious inclusive community is a heart-passion of mine. I work freelance to co-create spaces where people can connect with each other with vulnerability, feel held to dive deeply and feel fully seen in a confidential container. If you'd like to discuss how we can work together, please click Let's Collaborate button above! I am currently recruiting for Lounge Angel and Emotional Support volunteers for festivals, Please complete this form to be considered.